Now recall an instance when someone gave you advice that wasn’t helpful. Again, review the guidelines. Did that person violate any of them? Which ones?
Is the advice needed?
Is the advice wanted?
Is the advice given in the right sequence?
Is the advice coming from an expert?
Is the advisor a close and trusted person?
Is the advice offered in a sensitive, face-saving manner?
Works Cited
Adler, R.B., & Proctor, R.F. (2016). Looking out/looking in (15th ed.). Boston, MA: Cengage Learning.